When will i be happy? We all must have had this
question at some point in life. Some of us might be having this question even
now.
Do we have answer to this question? I use to
think like this whenever a problem would occur and its not getting solved. We
all must have thought in similar manner. Most of the time
problem is related to money. Something I need and don’t have money for it. Some business returns expected but we need to put more money or already have put in money and waiting for returns. I need bigger house, more jewellery, car, then sedan car, then big brand car, foreign holidays, designer clothes. List is endless.
problem is related to money. Something I need and don’t have money for it. Some business returns expected but we need to put more money or already have put in money and waiting for returns. I need bigger house, more jewellery, car, then sedan car, then big brand car, foreign holidays, designer clothes. List is endless.
But expectation is same once I get designer
cloth I will be happy, I feel I will be look better. Once this business is set I
will be happy coz now I can take care of a family and get married. Once I have
more branches of my company I can give more to my family then I will be happy.
So most of the time my happiness depended on
something outside me, something materialistic. But do I really become happy
after I get those things that I need? Ok even if I get those things someday or
maybe after 6 months, but for 6 months I was surely unhappy because I told
myself that I will be happy when this is done. So wrong I was.
I understood that the moment I can be happy is
this. This moment. I will surely be happier when I get things I wanted but I am
happy this moment. Nothing and nobody can take my happiness from me. Then
onwards I was happy this moment. Happiness too spreads fast. When I am happy I
carry similar energy around me, anyone coming near me can feel that energy and
they feel happiness in them. This chain grows exponentially. I met lovely
people along the way, full of happiness. They say they feel happy with me but I
say my happiness is shown outside.
Even if I am feeling little low someday and not
able to come out of my low energy, it is those people who are already in
happiness chain they meet with so much happiness that even my energy changes.
When I understood how others energy levels make me happy then I should also be
like that so that whenever someone who is feeling sad comes in my contact
should be able to come out of low energy and be happy.
I also noticed one thing - law of inertia. When
I am happy , my happiness continues till I apply brake of sadness and as result
I am sad. When I am sad my sadness continues till I apply brake of happiness.
It is this moment that I can be happy.
Its easy to be in silence when I am happy
without reason. Happiness is not shown only in big laughter or huge smiles, its
a feeling of good. Its a feeling that next moment is also good and eventually
slowly slowly all moments become good.
I do feel sad still over something but I come
out of it and become happy because I know happiness is within me not outside
hence its not dependant on materialistic things. If your happiness will depend
on things outside you then soon you get that something new would come up to
make you feel sad and again same sentence I will be happy when ..........
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